Rediscover The Essence Of Happiness (Part 2)
Loving your life is about trusting your instinct, taking the odd chance
in difficult situations, loving and experiencing joy, enjoying memories
of good actions and episodes of life and learning through life time
experiences. The birds chirping on the tree, a child nibbling on her
mother or merry children spilling out of their homes, all have the
capability to make a person feel happy. We just neglect most of these.
Nowadays, we try and look for joy in bonuses, promotions or any monetary
gain. But can money really buy happiness? Sometimes you see poor people
laughing carelessly while they play with their children and
experiencing happiness. On the other hand, children from well off
families are surrounded with technology today. Technology has created
such an influence in an individual’s life that people have almost
abandoned their family time. The time of the day that bought so much
laughing and giggling in the house is now substituted with members glued
to television or mobile phones. Festivals that were the major joyful
events have now lost their essence. They are merely days of more worry
and tensions because of the new trends of exchanging expensive gifts or
celebrating them lavishly.
So what is real happiness - perhaps a better way to describe happiness in its true essence is contentment. This comes from a complete awareness and acceptance of the self
as we are now at an internal level, and an acceptance of 'what is' at
an external level. Sounds difficult? The highest happiness is bliss
which can be experienced only when the self is totally free of all
attachment and dependency. Sounds even more difficult? But this is a real understanding and definition of happiness, which is not difficult to accept and make a part of our life, once there is a deep understanding, absorption and appreciation
of the divine wisdom of the self and others as well as the laws of
action and time involving both of them i.e. wisdom which is accurate and
complete in all aspects. Real happiness is a direct result of this
divine wisdom.
(To be continued tomorrow …)
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