Often, we offer suggestions to other people on how things should happen, how we would do it, or what we think works best.
If they don't follow our suggestions we may feel hurt and react, because we're expecting things to happen "our way." According to us, "our way" is the "right" way!
Try this instead: offer suggestions with no expectations attached. And if they don't follow your suggestions, you'll accept and respond more positively. Who knows, you might just discover that "a different way" is a "better way", after all!
If they don't follow our suggestions we may feel hurt and react, because we're expecting things to happen "our way." According to us, "our way" is the "right" way!
Try this instead: offer suggestions with no expectations attached. And if they don't follow your suggestions, you'll accept and respond more positively. Who knows, you might just discover that "a different way" is a "better way", after all!
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